Rachel and Tyler......I've seen this so many times before and hardly necessary to go on to Dr. Phil!
Look.....Rachel....you thought he was so COOOOOOL, so FREEEEEEEE, so Full of Life, etc, etc. You thought this was great when you met as I believe you were irresponsible.....only didn't see it as such at the time either!
I had a friend like Tyler, a Rocker, a Roller, a partier and loved everything going except responsibilites and what a partier. Would date everyone and anyone and serious harshed his Mellow too! At age 38 he decided DETOX was the way to go to get drugs and booze out of his system. He's cured of that today but still is very extremely immature and in his 40's still chasing young women in their 20's and even teens! Ya.....but he's cool!
You got what you wanted in choosing this guy....why you were on Dr. Phil...I have no idea!
Tyler.......your having a great time...I get that.......and everything is a blast and your going to party and hard and life is ever so freeeeeeeeeee.....including rent, food and your mother's love....what a shame.
If I was your mother...I'd kick you out and see how it MELLOWS your partying.....she's a loving support....but your taking advantage of a nice lady! You also mentioned she brought you in the world and "she's" responsible for you! Well....Dr. phil I don't think graced your attitude with the time of day and I'm sure of it........but......you yourself brought a kid into the world......."your responsible".\
Get off your LAZY hind end and get a job......or pay bills or be productive. Get a different bunch of friends because I'll paint a picture. Your friends will eventually fall into 1 of 2 categories....good jobs or jail......and you'll wonder where your partying DUDES went......does any of this sink in or no?
Rachel.......you picked this guy......everyone laughs....no one sees him as a catch.....or a fun dude.....they wonder how on earth you could have picked such a hard way of things.
All the best.....predictions are...divorce, and no lessons learned for either of you !
