Quote From: lonelygrilOk, here's the 411 on my relationship. We have been together for 6 years and living together for 5 of those years. I think we are probably too comforatble in our current living arrangements. I however am wanting to get married and have a couple of kids. He says not to pressure him, well I think 6 years is not pressure. I have found a few months back that he visits match.com (but is not subscribed), which this is online dating promoted thru Dr. Phil. He was talking about guys he works with doing it and I said I bet you do to and he said no. Well I have found on the computer that he is going to the site looking, but not talking to. Is there any harm in that? I have also found that he visits porn sites and has a picture of a girl in a thong on his phone......I am so disgusted with this. I really love him and want to marry him, but I don't feel that he feels the same way or has all this other stuff that he is doing blocked me from seeing what is true? I am sick about this and don't know what to do.
Men are cowards. They like the status quo. This is his way of telling you he's tired of your relationship but doesn't have the guts to break it off.
This is where you have to be mature, realize that the relationship is falling way short of meeting your needs. You should explain to him that you are unhappy and that's why you are leaving.
Don't tell him where you're going. If he asks, tell him you haven't decided yet and when you're ready to speak to him again, you'll let him know. Then drop him from your life and move on.
