Quote From: latingirlYou need to take care of you Don't wait around any longer. HE is not the one for you. That is pretty obvious. WHY should you pack up and move because of his career choice? He doesn't consider your feelings or emotions in any of this. Don't want for him to break it off. Be the mature one, break it off and move forward in your life.
Good luck.
Problem #1 -Just tell him you don't want to get married right now, and probably will never want to marry him
Problem #2- You did work very hard if you have your Master's at school and I'm sure at work, also. Tell him that you don't want to give that up. You are not being selfish by not giving up your career if you don't marry him. If you marry him, you will be expected to give it up. I've been overseas with the Army. It was a great experience. You wouldn't have to be a housewife, but you might not find a job in your field, so you may risk having a job you hate. But, don't let him ruin his career, either, by not telling him you don't want to get married. If he doesn't re-enlist, his career will be over.
Problem #3- You're young and sex is a chore? He's not the one for you.
Problem #4-He knows the sex is a chore for you but he doesn't think he is the problem. He thinks you have someone else and are having plenty of sex with someone else!
JUST TELL HIM NO!
