Quote From: willeneKelly should be PROUD of Julie losing all that weight and tell her so. I have gained and lost and gained and lost. I lost 70 pounds one time and a girl made fun of me cause of me saying I wasn't
wearing Queen size pantyhose anymore!! SO up I went again and gained all the weight back.
I know you should do it for you and not anyone else but it does help that people notice and are
on your bandwagon cheering you along. I say Julie, wear a bathing suit and SHINE and tell your
hubby to go jump in a lake!!!
You should be proud of yourself. Yes you gained your 70lbs back, but you learned from your mistake. Somehow, I don't think that letting someone else determine your happiness and weight is a mistake you'll be repeating. Somehow I think if anything, you'll lose all the weight you have to and do it for you.
Your advice to Kelly and Julie is on target.
Kelly needs to support his wife, instead of telling her a 165lbs weight loss isn't GOOD ENOUGH.