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May 22, 2006, 9:20 pm PDT
05/23 Abandoned
Quote From: rufuspufus I know how it feels. My mother took me and four of my siblings and said we were leaving my father once and for all. We drove and she picked up a boyfriend and then dropped us off at her mothers house and never came back to get us or see us. Me being the oldest 12 with a three month old sister, four year old sister, six year old brother, and a eleven year old sister . I raised them all. I to this day have only seen her maybe four times and have asked her why and she does not give me an answer except that I could not take it. But God is good and all is well I don't need her in my life. You will get through this. There was allot more going on with that said but that is enough for now. Julie Barraza i to know how he feels my mom left us us at any early age and my dad was a drunk who was murdered at the age of 39. my mom was a alcoholic as well and gave us up. identical twin daughers and to brothers. we were so young,12, 10 and 4. she had no clarity and gave us up to a child molester. who for the next ten to 13 years made our lives hell. I was one of the twins and was seperated from my sister for over seven years, while i did not have to endure the sexual abuse by him as my brothers did i did however had to endure the physical and emotional abuse. My sister was kicked out out the house at age 13 and I was not allowed to speak to her until I was 21 years of age. Not being allwoed to speak to her and being beat almost every day and told it is your fault ways pretty hard on a kid. along with having to keep the secret of what was happening to your brothers. seven years is a long time to be seperated for your twin sister. a little of 25 years has passed now and the four of us are closer then ever, we have in some ways worked through it we almost never speak about it,it is still sometimes just to painfull, but we are all together.
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