Quote From: chjude1I agree with you Lucy, I am an adoptive mother and I pray that I have given my children a better life than if they stayed with their birth parents and familys. I know the stories about their lives and it isn't a pretty tale. A lot of re-union shows between birthparents and children are not the usual stories. I figure that if you gave your child up or had the child taken from you for say severe drug use, than you don't get to come in on my Childs life after they are all grown up! I was there when my children were sick, needed me and became my child with a bond on so strong. I believe MIchael will be hurt all over again and I can't see the good in that. I will pray for you MIchael. Cheryl
Hello Michael:
My mom left me at the age of 3 months in a boarding house. My aunt came to see me on Monday after school. The landlord said I had been crying all weekend and that she had not seen my mother either. She ran off to Calfiornia with my dad. I know you will always be asking why! Even if you have answers they don't seem to help much..........they don't seem to satisfy you. It's like there is really is no excuse unless they died for some reason. My grandmother adopted me so I grew up knowing my mom. She died in a car accident when I was 18 yrs old. At first I missed her but it seem as I got older I realized she didn't want me and then I found the paperwork to prove it. I had a sister that she did not keep either. It's sad to say we are not alone in this. I hope you will find happiness with the people that love you the most and forget about the past.
