Quote From: nadlandryHi, i've been going out with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now it hasn't been easy I live in Canada and he lives in Bermuda (he as dual citizenship) he came to live in Canada for one year and left to go back home to work. He wants to marry me and would like me to move with him over there i'm really confused I have a good job (which I don't really like) in Canada I have no kids i'm 37y old he's 45y old no kids i've never lived with someone very long and i'm afraid. He's used to having is own way and can be difficult sometimes he'll try to control every situation and he thinks he's always right we have a hard time to communicate but isn't everyone going throught that ? If it doesn't work out i'll be left with nothing ......... I love him very much but I am scared of commitment can anyone help me or give me good advice ???
He's used to having is own way and can be difficult sometimes he'll try to control every situation and he thinks he's always right we have a hard time to communicate but isn't everyone going throught that ?
Um, No....
These are what the oldsters call "Red Flags" . Pay attention. if your interested in uprooting your life, quitting the job you :"Dont really like" that's up to you. I suggest you start looking at the world around you, and how much your passing up for a person not willing to move to Canada for YOU.
It does not sound from your post like he can't live without you. I suggest you let him find out what your absence from his life will be like, and at the same time-- you find out how nice life can be WITHOUT someone with all those red flags. You deserve better, and it's closer than you think.
He's not really very nice to YOU is he ?
