Quote From: nadlandryActually no, he isn't always nice to me the dog as more attention then I do when I tell him about that he gets furious. He doesn't know how to show is feelings but still say that he loves me that he's showing me is way..... I think that I see myself being 37y old with no kids and a job that I don't like i'm scared to end up alone. I'm wondering if someone else then him will ever want me. Thank you for your reply, I appreciate it.
Im 42 now...
When I was tossed aside from a guy for another girl, I was 18, and he was my whole world. My life was over, and I thought no one would ever want me... Wow was I wrong... 3 weeks later I had a new beau,(who was great to me) and my ex dumped that girl about 6 weeks later--then asked me out again. Of course I said NO ! and ran screaming for my life :)
Your going to have a good time, if you let yourself, and remember that your young and have alot of options. Since those days I've gotten my career, been around the world, and I didn't get married till I was 33 and had my child when I was 34... Trust me-- if you have a job you dont really like, go take a class in something you do-- think about changing your course to a career that pays better-- and if you feel you need more education, go for it... Get a better job, and have a great time with the money you make. Life will happen, it's just how it is... and then this guy who is not all that nice to you now-- will be one SORRY cuss when you cross paths again 20 years from now and you've had all the adventures--- and he's some lame alcoholic with a chip on his shoulder.
I know, because I LIVED it..... You can too... You deserve better. Do Better.... Be Better... He's not the only person in the world.... do what makes you valuable, and be valued...
