Quote From: netsurfer6Men are cowards. They like the status quo. This is his way of telling you he's tired of your relationship but doesn't have the guts to break it off.
This is where you have to be mature, realize that the relationship is falling way short of meeting your needs. You should explain to him that you are unhappy and that's why you are leaving.
Don't tell him where you're going. If he asks, tell him you haven't decided yet and when you're ready to speak to him again, you'll let him know. Then drop him from your life and move on.
I would not drop anyone, especially like THAT! that's is immature, rude and very mean. Would it break your heart if you were left like that, because the last time I checked men are human too and they also have feelings.
So, here's my take on this one...
Sit down and talk to him, it never hurts, how do you think I got engaged, I have no ring, we have the date set both families and our friends know. Sure I would LOVE to have a ring too, I even showed him one I like but he says he won't buy it for me because it doesn't cost as much as the promise ring I already were everyday.
Talking helps a lot of problems in relationships. Talk about everthing, never hold back how you feel. Look at me I have been with my fiance for 11 years (since I was 15) and we're still together. WE TALK. There is no running away, no immature BS. Just talk whene there is a problem. It doesn't hurt, and like my fiance always says, "it doesn't hurt to ask". I hope this helps you.
