Quote From: psychwife2and who could blame you? You're away from your little boy and it always hurts when they have to go away for a while, no matter what the circumstance may be...camp, school trip...or like you...they have to go stay with their "A$$ father", LOL! But don't be ready to throw in the towel on your life or your marriage quite so soon. Don't you think that you may be finding fault with your husband because he just happens to be a convenient target while you are mourning your son being away? When you get home from work, hy don't you skip the beer and the sofa and perhaps go for a walk with your husband and try to spend some quality time together. You're a newlywed and we all know that you never truly know someone until you have to live with them....they can be a bit annoying but you adjust and so do they.
Have you considered couples' counseling...after all, you are trying to blend a family with your husband, your son and the A$$...it's going to be hard but sometimes you've got to work a little harder to make it work.
Hope I didn't offend you...this is just my opinion but I wish the best for you! Keep in touch and let us know how you are doing? At least you can come here to vent instead of getting mad at your hubby, LOL!
i am trying so hard to make all of this not so confusing for myself. I always dreamed of getting married and he is a great guy. I just seem to find every flaw that he has and it drives me insane. You are right when you say that he is my target now, I have nothing else to do but sit around the house and watch every move he makes and always tell him how wrong he is. Its not fair to him at all, and it doesn't make me feel any better. I miss my son more than anyone could ever imagine, but i thought this time would help my husband and I and it hasn't.
I wish we could do some type of counseling, but the "A$$" hates my husband and wont have hardly anything to do with us. Just like he chose the month thing to upset me, and those words came from his mouth. He's selfish and is out to hurt me all he can. I dont let him know that he is winning, but he is!
