Replies to 'Ready for Marriage?'

Quote From: money1

dr phii, why do we always have to convince women of all ages when a man does not want to get married that is what it means?  I had to learn the hard way several times and am currently married very happy.  I had to wait 12 years for him!  I have friends who constantly talks about their boyfriends who do not want to get married.  they have great excuses, I got hurt, i have been cheated on, used, i have been married before, im not emotionally ready or finanicially ready.  then there is the but i love you! please! they even buy them engagement rings to keep them quiet and keep getting fed, sex, etc. wah wah wah...  when someone puts but in there you should worry.   I keep telling them not to hurt their feelings just like someone told me I wasted problably 3 years HE DOES NOT WANT TO GET MARRIED PERIOD!  no one wants to here the truth and then we are all crying about it several months or years later because we did not listen.  there are plenty of men who want to get married.  leave the ones that don't alone.