Replies to 'Afraid to Ask for What You Want Sexually?'

Good gawd NO, don’t reveal the prostitute incident to any future girlfriend.  They will run for the hills thinking you’re a no good dog (which doesn’t sound to be the case).

  

 

 

  

 

You can say that you have had a couple of sexual experiences and leave it at that. Most women don’t want to hear any details of previous sexual experience from their boyfriends,,,it just leads to problems with them trying to see if your comparing them to what you’ve already had.

  

 

 

  

 

 If someone does press the issue, then just tell them that it’s the “past”, and its going to stay that way…that you would much rather concentrate on the future, with them…  

  

 

 

  

 

If you want to get some “experience” on how or what a woman likes during sex, ask the one your with at the time, be open to communicating… does she like having this touched and soft or hard, slow or fast, does she like her nipples touched etc, etc, if you ask, women will tell you the truth…we don’t want to have something done to us that is irritating or a turn off,,,,,what would be the sense of having sex if we aren’t going to enjoy it some?  Get a good book or ask any questions here on this board, I or others here will fill you in best we can… Good Luck ~Redneon

  

 

 Hi, there really isn't much difference between a one night stand and having sex with a prostitute other than money was exchanged.  I wouldn't reveal that to a future girlfriend because she may wonder from time to time whether you really went out with the guys or were off picking up on some hooker.  Please don't do that anymore.  You can get busted by an undercover cop and have a criminal history or you may get killed or catch HIV or Hepatitis.  You are still so young and have so many years of life left.  Don't ruin your life over one cheap night of sex that probably wasn't all that good.  I say this because one of my best friends caught HIV from a prostitute.  He didn't use a condom and after they were finished, she told him that he had AIDS.  He was in shock and disbelief and regretted it so much.  He used to cry uncontrollably on the phone and when I would see him in person.  I hope this piece of advice helps.  Take care and remember that you are worth a lot and will one day find a good woman that will value you and love you for who you are. 

Tell her! When you are about to sleep with someone you are comprimising your body.  She and anyother woman deserves to know you have slept with hookers.  I would want to know.  It is her decision to sleep with you after she knows you have been with a hooker.  Even if you got tested afterwards.