Quote From: mikao2603Hi Fred,
Like you, i'm disabled too. I have to use a wheelchair all the time. Here in the Netherlands, it's hard to find a girlfriend. Women are often very demanding here. But it's true: you have to look how you present yourself. I have to work on that too. You are right that Dr. Phil did not have a show on that subject yet, but I stronly disagree that he would not see us as equal. (That's what I understand you're saying, from one of your prevous messages). I am very certain that Dr. Phil see's us as equal people. Maybe we should ask for him to talk about this subject. I think i'm going to leave a message here, to give them a good idea for a show.
Regards, Jo
Here in the Netherlands, it's hard to find a girlfriend. Women are often very demanding here. But it's true: you have to look how you present yourself. I have to work on that too.
I used to have a boyfriend from the Netherlands but he was so selfish - he was so-called able bodied - maybe he should meet with you - after all you may be what people call disabled but disabled refers to mentally disabled as well. I usually find people who are "able bodied" can be such emotional cripples - no offence intended in the wording ok. I would rather have someone infirm physically than have someone unfeeling emotionally. I am a former nurse and when he Tunde found out I was a nurse he said I would be a second class citizen in NL. I would rather be a second class citizen than be emotionally useless like he was - he cared about him and no-one else - heck he even found fault in his son because his son was left-handed!!!!! Sad BOY!
To Jo - be proud of you and what you manage to achieve in life as thats what matters - not others little closets they assign to you ok.
Senga
