Replies to 'Ready for Marriage?'

  I TOTALLY AGREE WITH NETSURFER THAT YOU SHOULD DUMP THIS GUY !!!   1. Someone who cares about you... does not check out other girls infront of you...(some  never do, even  behnd your back-- even at their friends prompting)   2.  Anyone who tells you that it's "him being a man and some men need to look at other lady's and do that sort of thing ..."  is as in much need of professional help as you are.   3.  Any guy going on Match. com to "check it out" ... is fishing.... do you get it ?  He's seeing who else out there is available.  I dont care if he subscribed or not-- that is a slap in the face of your relationship.  Next he'll have girls calling his place to set up dates, and he'll use you for his answering service.  He'll probably tell them your his sister....and no, Im not kidding.   There are so many real men out there, interested in JUST YOU, who does not have a need to check out other women, surf Match.com or any other DATING site, and would show you respect whether he was with you in your presence or not.   DO NOT MOVE IN WITH HIM ! ... because if you do, your going to find yourself 5 years from now, wondering why your Still not married, and how he never spends anytime with you-- or the kid you create.  Your worth more.  I'm with netsurfer... I'd dump this bozo like a hot rock... but I guess some "lonelygrils" are desperate for male attention. I pity you Lonelygril.  I pity the fact you never had anyone tell you that your worth something more than this brokedown losers second or even 3rd best.  Have some self respect-- there is WAY better out there than what your putting up with...    If your still in school, stay in, and if you didn't graduate, I suggest you call your school and find out how you can get back in to graduate.  Then go to school, get a career you like, make a ton of money, meet a billion people and travel the world !... Yeah you can, and this hoser your with now, he wont remember your name long enough to walk to his car honey... That's not a joke either... and somewhere in side of you,  Im telling the truth, and you know it.   Go have fun, spend your time wisely...   OMG... "Some men are just like that ".... OMG !.... No, those are the PLAYERS... Run as fast as you can....he's a hose beast !... lose him.  Do better, be better...You deserve better.  OMG, and in your travels, when you meet a real man... and I mean  a REAL MAN-- who only has eyes for you... it will blow you away.. and you'll wonder why you spent 5 minutes with this turd your with now...   Suprise him, dump him... and go live your life.  Give yourself adventures your proud to tell your grand kids about.  Not about some hoser who surfs match. com while he talks you into being his bed warmer.  You can do better !