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Replies to '05/30 Pretty/Ugly'
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May 30, 2006, 8:56 am PDT
 Quote From: runique It's a shame that so much emphasis is placed on what's on the outside rather than inside. Many people over the years have told me I should model......flattering,however, I lacked self esteem & confidence. I did go to an agency once......I felt like a piece of meat when I entered the establishment...the other girls looked me up & down ( once they got their noses off the ceiling ). Although to look @ them they were beautiful, ....listening to them & observing them for a short time made them unattractive. Not that every "beautiful" person opens their mouth & becomes ugly.....this was simply my experience @ that time. I know, what society may consider average to less than average people , that happen to have a genuine kindness, that make them beyond beautiful. I've always been thin & athletic...however, I do NOT judge people who aren't . I do care about their health. I feel the extra weight causes many problems for people that they otherwise wouldn't have . Weight doesn't make a person good or bad...just as being thin doesn't. It would simply be a better planet if every single person living on it would do just ONE thing........follow the Golden Rule. I've had people that were much heavier than me, glare @ me for eating a salad.....perhaps they felt funny because they had chosen to eat the bacon cheese burger & chili cheese fries. My point is that we are all ( at times ) discriminated against for all sorts of reasons. Beauty is each of our perception. I wish for all who read this ( experience & opinion ) of mine....PEACE, LOVE & SMILES. BEAUTY IS DEFINITELY IN THE EYE OF THE BEHOLDER, AND WHEREAS I KNOW THAT I AM NOT TYRA BANKS OR IMAN, I STILL FEEL BEAUTIFUL. I HAVE TWO VERY BEAUTIFUL BEST FRIENDS AND PERSONALITIES THAT ARE JUST AS BEAUTIFUL, AND WHEN WE HANG OUT, OTHER FEMALES SEEM TO LOOK AT US AS IF WE ARE TRYING TO BE SOMETHING THAT WE ARE NOT BECAUSE OUR APPEREANCE IS NEAT, HAIR DONE, OR SOMETHING OF THAT SORT, BUT PEOPLE HAVE TO REALIZE THAT HOW YOU PERCEIVE YOURSELF, IS VERY LIKELY OF HOW THE WORLD WILL. BEAUTY TO ME IS TOTALLY SOMEONE'S HEART, BECAUSE WITHOUT A PURE SOUL HOW CAN BEAUTY TRULY EXIST. BEAUTY FADES WITH AGE, BUT CHARACTER WILL ALWAYS REMAIN WITH YOU UNTIL YOU DIE. EATING HEALTHIER AND EXCERCISING CAN DEFINITELY MAKE YOU FEEL BETTER ABOUT YOURSELF, BUT IF THATS NOT A PRIORITY OF YOURS, THEN WHO AM I TO JUDGE, BECAUSE ONLY GOD CAN JUDGE US!!!!! |
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