Quote From: elffieI'm not sure what kind of guy your married too, but it sounds like he's a superficial one that you described above. You got liposuction to please him? Why? Isn't that kind of enforcing his behavior to only look at pretty women? That the outside matters more than the inside?
I am lucky enough to be married to a man who loves me for me. Four years of marrriage and two kids later and he still thinks I look sexy and I think he is as well. I'm not overweight as well, but it was MY decision to do what I did. Lucky for me, my husband cares what is on the inside and thinks I'm beautiful.
I don't need a liposuction to please him. I thought you could only get liposuction if you did have fat areas that couldn't be worked on. I'm surprised they did it for you.
Thank you for your reply. Yes, the lipsosuction was a mistake - I wouldn't do it again ever. But, I caved in to his wishes as I didn't like the little digging negative comments and his ever judging women in general: "her fat disgusts me; that one's pretty, but that one that a fat butt, etc."
I'm glad you got a good husband and a nice family. That's great. Again, thank you.