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August 28, 2005, 1:54 pm PDT

Communication

Quote From: jenoc99

Yes, you are being too emotional....of course it would have been 'nice' if this guy could have told you he was dating someone else, but, he didn't....you need to find a way to come to terms with that and get over your anger toward him and the girl he's going out with- because its not HER fault! Its not even his fault, after all when you asked him if he liked you- and he said yes, he could have meant as a friend, you know? Guys are so stupid anyway...don't waste your time or energy being so upset about this. Use this as an educational life experience...next time something like this happens, you'll know what NOT to do. Stop being so hard on yourself, you've learned a valuable life lesson.

  

 He meant as a potential girlfriend, as he has stated that he wants to date me, and yes I get what you are saying, but he was the one that brought for the ride purposefully indicating that he wanted time, and that he wanted to go out with me. Anyways, I told his friend to tell him to come up and tell me himself (he told him that he had--liar). And technically, he is not dating her, but sleeping with a hoochie in the alley. UGH! Anyways, I want to talk to him, not to try to force him to get with me or anything, but to tell him that he disrespected me by lying and taking me for a ride. Oh well, he could have had the full package, but he decided to go out and buy the one feature value package, on the clearance rack, at a condemned building of a store going out of business. His friend, the guy that told me, thought that I'd been sleeping w. him before, but I have never seen him anywhere except work (we are both volunteers--which is why I liked him---he seemed stable, intelligent, polite, and nice), and to not sleep with him because he says that he knows (as someone who knows that person) without a doubt that this lady has full blown AIDS. I have conflicted feelings toward him. First off anger, cause he messed w. me, second being fear because he's with someone he knows has a fatal disease (unless of course it's a ploy to keep me from wanting to date him at all--which is fine). I want him to know that we can be friends and that when I come around him, he doesn't have to run the other way. If I knew than I wouldn't be trying to get with him. Anyways, thanks for the comment. :) 

  

  

 


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