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June 1, 2006, 7:57 am PDT
parent pleasers
Quote From: drphanaticit seems like bridget wants her daughter to follow bridget's dream, not her own. by chance, did mommy want to be a big famous singer but just wasnt good enough/ pretty enough etc.? of course these children say they want to do this...their entire identity is tied up in their actions...they want to do this to please the parents...they are afraid if they say they don't want to do it, the parents will not love them...this is how children think...if they don't do what mom and dad are focused on, they think they will disappoint their parents...grow up mom and dad and do not attach your love to your child's performance...that is all the children see
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