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June 2, 2006, 1:21 pm PDT
Love your husband the way he is.
Quote From: lexydoodle I personally wish my husband could loosen up like that more often. He does, but he is so stressed with work that it doesn't happen as much as it used to. If he were to tell me 'let's get naked' when I was doing the dishes, I would feel complemented that at that very moment when I am elbow deep in dishes, he finds me attractive. Not only that he LETS ME KNOW!! I would love to hear stuff like that more often. I would join in some of the fun those guys are having because I am sure it would bring out some well deserved laughs between a married couple and probably would enhance the relationship if they could just let loose and have fun and laugh hysterically. I feel bad for those guys because their wives are making their fun and innocent antics into somewhat of a humiliation!! They are in a way taking advantage of what they have because there are a lot of women who would love to have men like that. Just my opinion I love my husband and he reminds me so much of these two guys. At first, when we got together, it used to annoy me that he was always full of antics and saying the VERY thing that would make people take pause. As we have grown a bit older (we've been together for 9 years now), I have noticed that most of my friends' husbands are so stuffy. What used to annoy me and embarrass me, has actually kept our marriage young! He is always after me to greet him without clothes, sneak in kisses around the corner, and to perpetually "get it ready!" I know that can sound a little gross to some women - but I say at least he wants me. So many 35-40 year old men are so stressed out they barely notice their wives, let alone take the time to be playful. Yes, there is always a time and place for romance, but maybe if you give them some of the playfulness, they'd be more willing to be more romantic. Count your blessings ladies - those men obviously love you and are excited about life!!! Better that, then couch potatoes, abusive ogers, or sexless bumps on a log. And to the men - window "seal" sounds cute - let her be her - and you be you. You'll be thankful when all the other people annoyed each other into unneccessary divorces. I love my man just the way he is - even if I have to walk away when he farts!
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