Quote From: labella226
I personally, through my own many years of experience, think men today to not know what or who they want. They all look for a Marilyn Monroe type and don't give a hoot what's in the persons heart or mind. They only think with their eyes. Then they have the nerve to complain when the relationship does not work to their satisfaction. Another thing, I think men have too high standards on what they are looking for. They want the perfect woman in all ways. Do they ever stop to think if they are completely perfect or great looking or irresistable? No!! Men start thinking with your mind and brains and logic and not with your parts below the belt. After time, that wears pritty thin as well. Arlene from Orlando Florida!!
Right on! You go girl!!!!! I agree with you 100%
And to the lady you responded to- Ma'am-The problems were HIS issues-NOT yours- It is HIS responsibilty-not yours- Many woman fall into that trap- You are not his mamma- He needed help-I am sure you did nothing wrong-Let him go -Heal and move on with your life-as you said-
Hope this helps- This is about HIM not YOU-
ARLENE- i have yet to meet a real man who appreciates my heart and attributes-All they are interested in is if I am very attractive and what I have below the neck-They were never interested in the REAL ME and I realized that it is THEIR problem and it does wear pretty thin- Dr Phil wrote the book LOVE SMART - for both men and woman- He talks about TRUE attractiveness and attributes-
