Quote From: lexcrestI thought I did this right, geting her off to school, But Now it is all back to an awful way for achild to experience everyday life. 
My 6yr suddenly complains of her feet hurting, Wont wear shoes. Last night she wore them. She missed the bus this morning because she wouldn't get her shoes on. I try to help her dressing all it does is make more upset. I just dont get it. 
You just really need to make her understand that you're the boss and she isn't. I always tell my kids when they grow up and have their own kids---that's when it's their turn to be the boss. Certain things, for instance putting on her shoes to go to school , just have to be done. period. she needs to understand that it's not open for discussion. things will run alot smoother, once she is positive without a doubt, who is in charge.