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July 26, 2005, 7:03 am PDT

alcmomof3

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I will pray for your son that when school starts this mean child will not do this to your son again. I get so upset when I hear of this, I have 3 children and they range in ages from 13 to 10 and then the little one 3. My daughter who is 13 would never tolerate it, when we moved 3 years ago she had a few girls who were bothering her at her new school and I told her not to put up with it cuz I knew it would continue if she let them, so she started to talk back to them and luckily it never had to go any further!! My 10 year old would be the sweet one who would take anything and I try to tell him not to let other kids who are not nice to push him around, he is little for his age so I worry. I think he is getting a backbone though. I do not tell the kids that is ok to fight but I do tell them that if a kids hit them that I give permission to hit back. My husband doesn't really agree with this but I think in today's world kids have to stick up for themsleves, if telling the teacher doesn't work then what else can you do?? Parents of bullies are to blame, I feel like they are ok with there kids being like that and ignore it also. Bottom line I can't stand bullies and I would be freaking out if I was you...

Good Luck!!!!

Hi there just thought i would check in here and i saw your post and i have to say i agree with you.The parents of these bullies need to take ownership in this too .AS WELL THE SCHOOL NEEDS TO PUT MORE INTO THEIR ANTI-BULLYING AND SOME RULES TO ENFORCE .I wish DR. Phil would have more on the bullying but also have the parents show more ownership .There is nothing any more madding then to have a parent say ",they wouldn't do that who what my kid "give me a break i always stressed with mine the imporrtance of respect and be dammed if i'm going to let it happen to mine .I f that were the case why bother inforcing the rule of respect at home when you don't as a parent follow it your self RIGHT?T hese parents make me sick .take care i'll check back later.all my best to the mom's of bullies and the dads too  sorry dads .LOLHULA GIRL. cathy

 
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July 27, 2005, 8:09 am PDT

Bullies

Quote From: alcmomof3

I will pray for your son that when school starts this mean child will not do this to your son again. I get so upset when I hear of this, I have 3 children and they range in ages from 13 to 10 and then the little one 3. My daughter who is 13 would never tolerate it, when we moved 3 years ago she had a few girls who were bothering her at her new school and I told her not to put up with it cuz I knew it would continue if she let them, so she started to talk back to them and luckily it never had to go any further!! My 10 year old would be the sweet one who would take anything and I try to tell him not to let other kids who are not nice to push him around, he is little for his age so I worry. I think he is getting a backbone though. I do not tell the kids that is ok to fight but I do tell them that if a kids hit them that I give permission to hit back. My husband doesn't really agree with this but I think in today's world kids have to stick up for themsleves, if telling the teacher doesn't work then what else can you do?? Parents of bullies are to blame, I feel like they are ok with there kids being like that and ignore it also. Bottom line I can't stand bullies and I would be freaking out if I was you...

Good Luck!!!!

Yes I was freaking out, even my neigbor was (it was her son who told his mom and then she told me) My son wouldn't even tell me this was happening. 

 

I did tell my son not to take it when he was being pushed around.  I know some people wouldn't agree with that either, but if you have to defend yourself I say go for it!

 

 

 


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