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Quote From: shortie78

I HAVE A 6YR. OLD AND A 2YR. OLD MY DAUGHTER WAS LIKE AN ANGEL ALMOST FROM THE START ALTHOUGH NOW SHE HAS HER MOMENTS, ESPECIALLY SINCE HER BROTHER CAME INTO THE PICTURE.  MY TWO YR. OLD DOESN'T LISTEN TO ANYTHING I TELL HIM.  I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO ANYMORE I FEEL I HAVE TRIED IT ALL AND NOTHING HAS WORKED.  HE HITS US AND HIS SISTER, HE THROWS THINGS ALL THE TIME, YELLS, CRIES YOU NAME IT.  I CANT HARDLY TAKE HIM ANYWHERE BECAUSE I GET VERY EMBARRASSED AT HIS BEHAVIOR, HE WILL SIT IN THE CART IN THE STORE AND YELL.  UNLESS HE IS TOTALLY BUSY 24-7 DOING SOMETHING HE LIKES HE IS BAD.  LIKE IF HE IS AT THE PARK HE IS USUALLY OK UNTIL HE GETS BORED OR STARTS TO FIGHT WITH HIS SISTER.  I HAVE SPANKED HIM, DONE TIME OUT, PUT HIM IN HIS BED FOR A BIT SO I DON'T GET TO MAD AT HIM, HE WILL CRY IN HIS BED THEN SAY I DONE CRYING THEN GET OUT AND HE MAY BE OK FOR 10MIN. AND START IN AGAIN.  I'M WORRIED HE COULD MAYBE HAVE ADHD OR IS HE JUST BEING TWO?  I DON'T KNOW ANYMORE, MY PARENTS TAKE MY DAUGHTER ALLOT BUT NOT HIM CAUSE HE IS HARD TO HANDLE, BY THE END OF THE DAY I'M DEAD TIRED.  PLEASE HELP I FEEL LIKE I'M LOSING IT, I WOULD NEVER HURT MY KIDS BUT SOME DAYS I FEEL LIKE I COULD IF YA KNOW WHAT I MEAN PLEASE HELP.  i HAVE TRIED GAMES AND TABLE ACTIVITIES BUT HE WONT PLAY LIKE WITH A GAME HE WILL START THROWING THINGS AND RUIN IT FOR US ALL.