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June 25, 2006, 12:25 pm PDT
So true!!
Quote From: susanpearThat house has gone far beyond clutter. It also looks filthy and unhealthy, with all the pet food scattered everywhere, pet dung, etc. This is a case for the local health department. The home has become nothing more than one big trash dump. The kids and wife are being forced to live in layers of mess and filth. That's abuse, not hoarding. Something should be done about it NOW!
Nancy has to take charge of her home! John can load all his stuff into one of those Pods & haul it away to his own private storage area! Nancy-- it's your home! Let him clutter up the trailer while you live in comfort in the house. He has lots of therapy to do while he figures this out, but he doesn't have to ruin your life in the process! And forcing those cats to live in moldy cat poop-- that's just WRONG!
If he pays the bills late, then YOU pay the bills on time. Tons of wives do the family bookkeeping. Don't let him bring ONE THING into your home-- he has a big trailer to use. If he wants to see you, he can make a date and take you out. That house is no longer his to clutter. Buy him a nice gift-- 100 small storage boxes. He needs the clutter right now, but it can be in another location, not in the family home! By the way, a support group for you would help you alot.
Good luck! You can do it!
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