Replies to 'Depression'

No you are NOT a loser. I don't know what it is with men, they want their wives to stay at home then they don't give them the credit they deserve. If he had to do it, he would have a different outlook but probably only while he was doing it, he would soon forget. For one they don't see things we do that need to be done, they think they pick up their stuff and they are helping out but what about all the other stuff, do they think things don't get dirty on their own (dust, the kitchen floor, the fridge) Andre and I just had a discussion about housework, if I just pick up my stuff then it would be easy to clean. Let see I get the groceries put them away, cook supper all this after work and then I am supposed to pick my stuff up and clean house, while he MOWS the LAWN and fixes things outside, sigh, LOL they will never understand. Second I think some men get a thrill out of making their wives feel bad, a friend of mine is going through the same thing you are, they don't have kids but she makes all his meals even lunch to take to work and her house is spotless, she renovates the house, paints you name it, I don't think he knows how to use a screwdriver. But he tells her pretty much the same thing. 

Laurie