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June 25, 2006, 5:49 pm PDT
Sex
Quote From: turkalurkWhoa, girl, you need to slow it down a bit. So you're from Lebanon, does that mean you still live in Lebanon? If so, I hope you realize that most people on these message boards are American. There is such a huge difference in culture, I don't know if this is the best place to seek advice. Especially when it comes to your virginity. That shouldn't even be a question to ask strangers anyway. It shouldn't be about whether or not you should have sex or not, it should be about whether or not you've found a guy that you're in love with, and have been with him long enough that you know its the real thing. As far as this guy that you think you're in love with. Its highly unlikely that something like that would work out. That doesn't mean you shouldn't go for it. I mean, if I knew someone that could introduce me to Jessica Alba or Penelope Cruz, I'd be all over it. I really don't think this is love you're talking about, it seems more like an infatuation. Woooaaaa dude! You are soooo gonna get in trouble for using Dr. Phil's pic! LOL!!! Yes little one, there must be a difference in cultures, so what you hear here, may not jive with your country's beliefs. But since you are asking, turk said it all. It probably won't work out, but if you are so hell bent on meeting the guy then do it and get it out of your system. But don't feel bad if he doesn't reciprocate your feelings. You got the hots for an "idea" of a guy, that doesn't mean that is actually who he is, and you won't know who he is unless you can actually get to know him. You sooooo should not give up your virginity just to get a guy to like you. He can get that all day long so it doesn't make you anything special. Just respect yourself and your body no matter what you decide to do.
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