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June 26, 2006, 6:27 pm PDT
People do and can change
Quote From: skbruningIn re to: "Sure stirring things up here today.....all in having a good time this time" or somesuch nonsense.
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I think the ENTIRE BOARD should IGNORE Charles. Tracy deserves love, honor, respect, attention, counseling, hugs, advice, tips on crappy husbands, dealing with FOUR BOYS, and lots, lots more.
I, hereby, am putting "Charles" on Ignore. Not worth another minute of MY time.
I've said what I've said and I think I have gotten the truest "bull's eye" of all the posts. If you want to think he is "reformed", more power to ya. CLICK. I have seen it happen but it takes a lot of work and I mean really hard work. The guy (woman) in an adultery relationship really has to prove themselves worthy of their spouse and sometimes that can take a very long time, they have to expect to be accountable for their whereabouts, who they are with, and so much more, I have seen broken marriages put back together as I have a couple of friends who have gone through this but anyhting is possible when the desire and work is there.........As for Charles, I do hop that he isa changed man for his wife certainly deserves a good man in her life and really, she is the only one who can determine the situation here. The imporant thing is that she needs to trust her instincts and not be afraid to hold her husabnd accountable and he needs to accept that...In time as they begin to build their relationship/marriage, they will heal from all this but it does take time and energy right along witha good counseling and most imporantly communication........She needs to be strong and follow her heart, he needs to respec ther and her feelings and all and together, their marriage can survive...Too bad people get themselves into these type of situations but we are all human and make mistakes but it takes a strong person to admit and then do something positive about it, will be intersting to see an update on these two and really see how far they have come, hopefully very far ina positive way.
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