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July 2, 2006, 1:58 pm PDT
07/04 Old Flames
Quote From: bluhrigYou don't need a husband who is so insensitive. I'd kick his ass out of the house.
I've been married for 36 years. My h didn't even mention ex girlfriends until after 20 years. Of course, he isn't one of those guys whose head snaps around whenever he sees a woman.
I was married before - at 18. No kids. I rarely talk about things I did with him or our life together, but that was 9 years of my life. My h was insanely jealous for several years. After one divorce, I wasn't about to give up on him. Luckily he came to his senses.
Please don't try to make your husband jealous by going with another man. I'd dump him and then think about why I put up with it so long.
Your husband is wrong for saying what he said. If I was you I would put a wall between us. I would not accept him tlaking to me like that and threating me with his ex. He has no respect for you in my eyes. I would try to look into seeing if there is something going on between them and if not. i would try and work it out and get him to respect you better. No matter what your husband should stand by you (right or wrong). You should come first to him and your feelings.
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