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Quote From: lilacmess

Did you tell him before he went that strippers were off limits? It sounds as if you didn't and you should have. I told my husband before we even got engaged that if he wanted to marry me, there would be no pornography and no strip clubs in his future and that included at his bachelor party. He still proposed and there was no bachelor party, probably because he knew his friends would plan one with strippers. It's a disgusting tradition and one that women need to start standing up to. It IS cheating to have another woman in your lap toucing you and rubbing up against you. I'm curious, were there married men at this party, men with wives at home? I'd be tempted to tell all their wives what these men were up to, especially the part about them trying to get the strippers to come home with them. Nothing good would have come of that and these wives need to know how their husbands behave when they're off together as a bunch of guys. As for you, unless you told him he couldn't have strippers at his bachelor party ahead of time, I think you're going to have to forgive him. You should however make it clear that he is never allowed to be anywhere near a strip club again and this includes at bachelor parties of friends. And if he can't agree to this, you'd be a fool to marry him. At any rate, I think you're letting him off too easy. He needs to see how serious this is and he needs to know that you're actually considering not marrying him over this. Otherwise, he'll just do it again.