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July 25, 2005, 4:04 pm PDT

Don't you dare blame yourself!

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all the way home from work i thought about this forum. thought about how my anger and unhappiness has rubbed off on more people. every where i go i cause this. everything i do i cause this. i was never trying to criticize God. He is the only hope that I have to get me through this. But the way it was being thrown at me was to just pawn everything off on him and my life will be okay, and i find that hard to believe. I go to church, i read my bible, i pray, my son knows God. He isn't something that I keep quiet in my household. Yet he can and will only help me through so much. I have to deal with this depression and i have to deal with it today, tonight, tomorrow, and so on or else i can't be here for the great family that I have.

You were merely a pawn in this matter and in no way did you cause any problems.  I cannot accept you having to feel guilty because some of us got off topic.

You didn't cause anything...you only asked for help.  And I repeat...we ARE here for you...you can vent to us...we all have and we all will again.  That's the beauty of having a place like this to turn to.

Get some rest tonight and tomorrow will be a new day and a new beginning.

Take care!
 

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July 25, 2005, 4:11 pm PDT

Depression

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all the way home from work i thought about this forum. thought about how my anger and unhappiness has rubbed off on more people. every where i go i cause this. everything i do i cause this. i was never trying to criticize God. He is the only hope that I have to get me through this. But the way it was being thrown at me was to just pawn everything off on him and my life will be okay, and i find that hard to believe. I go to church, i read my bible, i pray, my son knows God. He isn't something that I keep quiet in my household. Yet he can and will only help me through so much. I have to deal with this depression and i have to deal with it today, tonight, tomorrow, and so on or else i can't be here for the great family that I have.

I am guessing someone said to you give everything to God and it will be ok.......  what if i say it this way Let God be God and he will be there for you no matter how hard things are.....  there are so many days i would just love to disappear but i know that God is there right by my side believing in me even though i don't believe in myself.  Yes, we are to give all things to God but in doing that we have to let him keep those things which can make someone think Oh I've done that before and it doesn't work.  It is about us really totally letting go of it all.  something that I have a hard time doing.  God can help us through all things He can do all thing but He is a gentleman and will force nothing on us......  He basically says here my love i am offering this to you but i give you the choice to take it or not........  I know that iti s soooooooooooooooooo hard to give things over to God there are things in my life that even though i know they don't belong to me that aren't of God I have a really hard time letting go of it I feel like an indian giver when it comes to me giving things to God a lot of times i say here and like seconds or minutes later it's like hey wait you can't have that........  well yeah i hope this makes since to you!!  "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me"  it is by His power that we can over come.....  sure we still have to face so many things but when we face them (the lies and all that junk) what do we do with them do we take them as truth and not let go or do we say God what do you think or does this aline with the Character and the word of God........  there are so manythings we can ask but well yeah!!  "If you have faith the size of a mustard seed you can say to the mountain move and it will be moved"  A lot of it isn't just in saying ok God here have it i don't want it but it is in steping out and proclaming at the same time......  stepping out on water

 
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July 25, 2005, 4:12 pm PDT

sweets537 - You Did Not Cause Any Trouble

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all the way home from work i thought about this forum. thought about how my anger and unhappiness has rubbed off on more people. every where i go i cause this. everything i do i cause this. i was never trying to criticize God. He is the only hope that I have to get me through this. But the way it was being thrown at me was to just pawn everything off on him and my life will be okay, and i find that hard to believe. I go to church, i read my bible, i pray, my son knows God. He isn't something that I keep quiet in my household. Yet he can and will only help me through so much. I have to deal with this depression and i have to deal with it today, tonight, tomorrow, and so on or else i can't be here for the great family that I have.

 

Sometimes trouble just shows up uninvited! You are not to blame for what went wrong here. So forget all about it if you can cause Honey you have enough to worry about. I am just glad to see you back, so I can avoid those rusty swings a little longer.

 

This sort of thing happens from time to time but really it is not the norm.  This is usually a soft place to fall in an otherwise tough world. You should not have to defend your beliefs and neither should I. So let's not. Did you happen to see my post about how I am when my family is away?

 

((((((((( HUGE COUNTRY HUGS)))))) Mar.

 


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