Quote From: superdl1The man who got the woman pregneant and does not want to be the father because he did not want a child in the first place, is truly selfish, cold hearted and ridiculous. If he didn't want a child he should have kept is you know what zipped in his pants till he was ready. As far as I am concerned, which I have learned from my daughters situation, a man that does not want a child of his , is not worth being in the childs life or even paying for him. I would let him go on his way and take care of the child myself. I would not want a man around them who is like that. But , he dare not think that one day when he is feeling old and insecure, that that child will be in his life, because it would never happen. I am sure there are some men out there who would love to raise that baby as their own. I raised my children and grandchildren for quite a few years, alone. It can be done.
My daughter has 5 children by 2 different men that won't help her support them. She finally married a man who have been taking care of all 5 children for 5years now. I admire a man like that . I don't consider these guys that you have on tv, "men". They are sad.
I hear some real contradictions in your statement. Your daughter has 5 children? This man on the show clearly did not want a child " at this time in his life". It takes 2 to make a child. It takes two!!! to make the decisions when the consequences of those actions effect more than just one person.
I wonder how you would feel had this been your son?
