Quote From: coppermousDear Grandmother, When unruley grandchildren come to visit disipline them as if they are your own. If there parents don't like it, tell them they must do it themselves. But that you will not put up with rude, noisy, distructive children in your home. After all, your home is your castle.
Have you had a chance to talk about your grandson's behaviour with his parents? That may be a starting point. I also have a child that does not really rule the roost but has difficult behaviours, any extra help that I can get with him I gladly take. I have also had my son checked by many doctors to see if there are underlying problems which they say there are and I am not surprised . Maybe your grandson has some problems that have never been looked at? Just a suggestion, I know how difficult it can be as a parent but have also been empathetic to the other side also. We do not have any grandparents that can help as my family lives far away. Anyways I hope it works out for both sides because in the end you want your grandson to get the benefits from being with his grandmother, but yet learn that what people say to means business. I could use some help with that also for my son.
Nicole
