Quote From: takchancesI am a single 46 year old whom for the last 2 years has lived with a Man whom controls not only his money but what I do with mine. We used to have a joint account for household expenses but in all honesty I am the one having to pay everything.
He does contribute somewhat but usually whatever money I get from him I use to pay bills mine as I have been out of work for 2 years and went back to school. I recently had to withdraw from my classes as I became ill. He does not help me or support me in anyway, yet I do everything around the house from running his errands, my errands, clean, cook. He has it made. He has a great job owns alot of rental property's but yet we never have the money to go anywhere or take me out, but yet he plenty of money to take his ex-wife out and spend weekends away with her.
Why, why, why?
He is controlling you and your money.
He sees to it that your money is used up easily for bills.
He is not there emotionally, financially, of physically for you.
Why are you running HIS errands.....do you realize the message you are giving him?
He is isolating you at home....saying no $$ to go....what an excuse. Just an excuse.
And on top of that you are sitting at home and he is with ex wife and spending $$ and weekends with her.
My goodness.
Perhaps she would like to cook for him and wash his dirty underwear?
Why does he have it made with you......when he treats you so poorly.
Please set some boundaries and guidelines for yourself with him......you deserve better than any of this.
There is an abuse message board on this site.....under Relationship/'sex....then under marriage....then abuse.
See you there.
