Quote From: unamigaWell Here I go again.....hubby does not split tax return, charges me more than what he pays for car payment and has other incomes coming in and does not share with me or girls and yes, has me on smal foodl budget , and on top of it all calls me stupid wife, because he takes vacations without me ,lies to me as often as possible and really thinks that "things" are far more important that family....Has gone to the extent of telling me I need counciling......I am finally pulling myself back together got me a job that is starting to pay generously, got a lawyer and now am looking forward to kicking hubby out.....The story is classic domination, wife must be obedient and all that but I am finally breaking lose.....something clicked insided about being joy ful with self and .seeking freedom inside.......Am very scared for he keeps telling me I will lose the house the car and all my posessions, but deep down inside....so what....I can replace everything as long as I can be happy and free with myself....I have found joy in the work I do and in doing so finding freedom of who I am where I must be and am not so scared anymore of the fighting, insults or belittling....Its not about fighting back anymore , its about getting free.........
in getting free...you are entitled to your share of all the belongings and assets.
Depending on the state you live in and years of your marriage.....you have rights according to law. More probably than you realize.
Take care.
I wish you well.
These are forms of abuse, you know. There is an abuse message board...a place for you to talk about all this and vent with others.
Seek it out, if you wish.
Take care.
