Quote From: cricket93I am by no means an expert, and I have even been mislead by the "divorcee" man who was said to be healthy and moving forward-- to truly find out that he was newly divorced and started blaming me for his ex-wife cheating on him... All I have to say is that with online dating and being a woman.. we must be cautious, but hopeful. Live in the truth of what you know, do not romanticize the men that email you/text you, and be cautious... I believe that if someone is true -- it will come out in time -- take the time, meet and get to know the person vs. being online and imagining what someone is like... and, trust your instincts... I am single and 35, and once again attempting the online thing.. I have my masters degree and just did not have the time to invest in dating (amongst other things).. I just pray that I will meet one of the normal people.. or at least have fun and keeping hope while i am on the journey.. good luck to all of you..
I married my last husband from a meeting on the internet. We were married almost 3 years and he left me 2 weeks before a major surgery. I've recently tried filling out a profile on E-Harmony and I only get denied as "there are no matches" that fit my desires or the area I want. So...I believe online is only for the lonely and for people that really want a long lasting relationship I still believe in the meeting of the minds in person. (My sister is recently married and she met her man on E-Harmony)! I'm waiting to see how that works out. I'm still waiting to be at the right place at the right time. Do you think that is dumb? I sympathize with your delima. I don't know that there is an easy answer.
Paula
