Don't give out your phone number, or call him with on your phone first by blocking your number with *67. Or, exchange e-mails - much harder to trace where you live, who you are. I made up another e-mail address from my 'normal' one just for match.com stuff. First, it keeps my kids off of checking out my e-mail and maintains my privacy as it is an address that makes NO mention of what I am or who I am. Yes, I understand your frustration with pictures matching up with the "real Thing" - I love the guys who are "Athletic and Toned", yet they show pictures of the whole self, beer belly and all! Patience is what it takes - there are many fish in the ocean, but only few are "edible"! Good luck
