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September 4, 2005, 6:22 am PDT
no direction
Quote From: renagadeShe sounds like a Brat that is now under your care. Let's say one thing now - she is an adult - aint nonething you can do about that. According to Doc Phil she has this disease that's called 'entitlement'. She also could be fighting or hating herself and not knowing it, and when you fight with yourself - you always loose. She also could hate the world and authority. Can the two of you talk or do you come across as a Drill Sargent! What about her Dad. Does she treat you with respect - how does she treat her dad? She may not have found her way and be struggling with that. I am 58 and I remember how it was when I was only a little older than her. I had to begin liking myself before I could see clearly.
Rog Brat is a nice way to put it . Have you meet my SD cause everything you said is SOOO true. She has never had respect for her mom , dad or anyone else. BUT when she turned 18 I stopped letting her treat me like trash and started telling her the real in your face deal and she HATES me for that. We would really like to help guild her in the right direction so she can be happy but nothing is ever good enough for her. She is very smart and could do anything she puts her mind to.But she is also very hard headed to anything we have to say. Do we need to just let her go and hope she finds her way or what?? This has been going on for 2yrs now. How do you help them find there way?
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