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July 28, 2006, 11:01 am PDT
07/27 Fighting Styles
Quote From: monhol mr gerald has done something or is doing lots of things to make her act like a complete fool. men love to see us women belittle our selves for them and than tell friends, family, and the woman he is cheating on us with that we are crazy. there is alot more to this story i bet. did he meet her through cheating? did he tell a whole bunch of lies to get her?? are her hands dirty as well?? listen up ladies the way you get a man is the way you lose him. when you go into a relationship filled with deceit and lies it will end that way. one of you could have clean hands but if your partner does not he or she will make you unclean too. I completly agree. When I met my husband 8yrs ago he was on his 3rd marriage and had not filed for divorce yet. She left and never looked back. That was Sept. and in Dec. she served him with divorce papers. Left everything in the house and only took her clothes (no car). He told me every excuse in the book why she had left. She was cheating, his kids etc. Now that I have known him for 8yrs...............I'm and idiot for sticking around. He is the money maker and I have a child. A foulish situation I have gotten myself in. He is 13yrs older than me and lets me know it!! Ladies beware: If the warning signs are there don't ignore them. This is my first marriage and I am 32. My Parents and Grandparents never divorced. I'm not saying that it dosen't happen in my family. But it is very hard for me to accept. I look at myself as a failure. I get very angry and I direct it at him. I feel like I have been robbed. I do not fight fair. I have alot of changes to make to fix me. Blamming him would not help me right now. So for all of you women that are not married and in a unhealty relationship. Think twice. It is not asking to much to have a healty relationship. Once your married it really muddies the water. Houses, cars, debt, kids etc.
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