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ttlove

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July 29, 2006, 9:39 pm PDT

abuse

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You better run while you have a chance. HOW IN THE HELL DO YOU CALL THAT LOVE? You have spent 2 years too long with him already. Move. He is trying to control you and you are allowing it. Now stop your whining and get your clothes packed and call your ex husband and tell him you need to come home. You are insane to stay with him another day. As big as he is he is going to kill you. If he calls that loving you the I would hate to see what he does to you if he hate you. Forget what the kids want, I am sure they do not see the evil side of him and if they did, they would rather have their mother alive. This man is trying to break you down, control your life. He thinks you are pitiful, he does not love you. He IS VERBALLY ABUSIVE AND PHYSICALLY ABUSIVE, stop taking up for the LOSER. Yea, he was waiting for a woman like you to come along, one he could control and degrade, forget about him doing every day, he SHOULD NOT EVER DO IT. That is not love. You can make it alone, because if it is love that you want then you are not getting it there. You have to face the truth, heck you made a mistake and now move on before it is too late. If he suggest counseling then let him get it while you move out. Do not stay with him another month no matter what he promise you. You have to think better of yourself or you will settle for less. I bet you that he does not raise his hand to hit another man, know why because he is a WIMP. Yes, a WIMP AND A LOSER. If you stay there and put up with this mean man then you are crazy and need a HELP. You were married for 16 years to a wonderful man and now this, it is not that you do not know what a good man is, so what the PROBLEM, girlfriend.

I can't not believe this I had to read it three times to see if this was my story. Let me tell you it will only get worse. So what if he has a nice house you can always get a new one. I went threw this same same thing only I waited 8 years to leave. I married my husband when I heard that little voice that you are hearing now other wise why would you be on here. Listen to your inner voice and that gut feeling. My husband first started just calling me names at first then hitting me and then total control to the point where he controlled all the money and I was trapped in my own home. I had to leave a home that I loved, live in a place I hate, penniless, jobless, and fighting the court system just to get my own personal things back, your inner voice is screaming wake up and listen. From my experience he is only going to get worse. My husband beet me so bad that he did 38 days in jail 1 year in treatment and I still loved him but now he is so angry he is out to destroy me in any way he can. Move out and put your foot down in his getting some help. If he loves you enough he will do the work on himself to win you back. Take my experience as well as other on here read everything on verbal abuse and the cycle unless you put your foot down and move you are always be his victim. RUN

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sadiam

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July 31, 2006, 5:56 am PDT

Abuse

I know.....thats what I ask myself. He says you loves you? I don't understand this kind of love. This weekend, I overheard him telling several people he was going to Ky. Tuesday him & his son, (he has a farm there) going to some races and he invited his son's uncle to go. I thought ok.....it would be nice to be told you were going out of town. I don't care if he goes, its just disrespectful to me, by not telling me, I feel. I said " Maybe I'll start not telling you when I have something planned and just do it without telling you." He said "Whats the big deal, you'll be at work anyway. Its for the day." Then I heard him tell his son's mom, "we'll be gone 2 days." I take offense to that, should I? Am I just crazy? My ex and I never communicated like that. I mean its a night when I don't have my kids and I'll be alone....I just think I deserved to be the first to know. I thought he should've said "Hey, I know you don't have your kids Tuesday but would you mind if I take...."his son" and go to Ky for couple of days"

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