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September 8, 2005, 10:10 pm PDT
Sex
Quote From: jenoc99You said "that is just how bachelor parties are...." but I want to tell you that is a load of crap that men tell their girlfriends/fiance/wives so that they can be naughty and get away with it!! Bachelor parties can be fun without being perverted. If someone else buys a lap dance, he's got to be man enough to say, 'thanks, but none for me!' and mean it. That is what a respectful and respectable man would do, if his fiance requested it, when faced with a lap dance.
When my husband's friends planned his bachelor party, there were strippers involved, but to be honest it didn't bother me. It didn't bother me because I had a gut feeling, an instinct, that he would be respectful of my feelings. He had a great time without getting nasty. Men are visual, I had no problem with him viewing the strippers. He came home to me!
Anyway I just wanted to get the point across that if a guy says he was forced to have a lap dance he's full of crap. But also, whats so wrong with a lap dance, anyway? These women are working a job, they are just trying their hardest to make as much money as they can. Its all an act, they don't really 'like' the guys.
Just my opinion. I didn't care if he went to the strip club. What upset me is that we did talk about it before he left. He said he didn't want to go to one, but he did. I told him as long as you don't touch them and they don't touch you I don't care. So when he told me about his lap dance, after I told him not to tell me he said he didn't like it. That was another lie. But still not that big of a deal. What really set me off was when he said that they tried to get the strippers back to their cabin. What do a bunch of married men need with strippers at their cabin for? Especially after they already had their fun. I was upset, but wanting to just drop it, but then he got ticked off at me for crying. I'm sorry, but I think that I should be the only woman to give him any kind of sexual pleasure. Plain and simple. I was hurt, but there was no need for him to get pissed at me when he knew how I felt before he told me. Which I told him not to.
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