Quote From: psychwife2It's the little things that we expect to not be a problem...I mean, after all, you pay your bill, you expect service...and when service is interrrupted, you at least deserve an explanation.
Losing cable is double trouble for me...we also have a cable modem...No TV and no computer!!!
Hang in there and try not to jump to conclusions that your hubby thinks you're crazy. If you keep thinking that way, you will drive yourself crazy eventually. If he looks at you funny, why don't you ask him, "What are YOU looking at? Haven't you ever seen an old fashioned bitch fit before?"
I'm not trying to make light of your situation, but you take things so seriously and you are so hard on yourself. I hope you understand where I'm coming from...I really think you two need to do some more talking. He deserves to know how you feel and you deserve to feel safe enough to tell him. When we first got married I expected my husband to read my mind and although he is a very smart man and a psychiatrist to boot, he can't read minds...not even mine (even though he thinks he can sometimes!) I had to learn to let him know what I needed and to not assume that he would know what to do for me. Give it a shot with your husband. Let him know you are grieving, let him know that you are scared and let him know that you would like his support while you try to work things out. It can't hurt to try.
Oh how I understand!!! I will go spas and then just cry and wonder what in the **** has happened to me. I cry and think my son who is 18 hates me. My husband says he doesn't. He just worries about me and my health.
So, no....you did not overreact. You had a right to ask why your cable was out. I am glad that we are here for each other.
Oh my gosh....stupid me.....I have to call my dearest friend. I am soooo and I mean soooo stupid.....I have to call her. I will try and be on later. You are the best!!!!
