Quote From: lilacmessActually, we do discuss the issue at hand just obviously not in a manner that pleases you. Porn is everywhere, you're right, and that's mostly thanks to the internet. The popularity of internet pornography has desensitized us to the point that pornography is filtering down into mainstream media including prime time television and big studio movies. If this doesn't bother you, I'm not sure why you're complaining about the discussions of this board. If you were looking, however, for a place to celebrate the "virtues" of pornography or looking for like-minded individuals who naively believe that porn is some kind of necessary evil and a deterent to cheating, you've definitely come to the wrong place. I wonder how you would feel if you were in the mood for sex, had gussied yourself up for it, and lay in bed waiting anxiously for your husband, only to find him at the computer jerking off to porn instead. Many of the women who post here have had this exact experience. You're lucky if you haven't although, I must say, if you allow your husband to continue to look at internet pornography, you may some day have this experience. Perhaps then you'll find a need for this board. Until then, I wish you luck with your tolerance of it.
I wonder how you would feel if you were in the mood for sex, had gussied yourself up for it, and lay in bed waiting anxiously for your husband, only to find him at the computer jerking off to porn instead.
Then be a bold woman and tell him or let him know that you are in the mood!! How hard is that? Unfortunately men and women are not mind readers. Let him know that you are interested in him. You just laying on the bed or couch or where ever and just having him come up to you you initiate it. It may actually turn him on.If he seriously is still doing this even after you initiate it then there is something seriously wrong in the relationship that you guys should really look into.