Quote From: heven626My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 years. I recently moved to a different state to be closer to him, because being 1300 miles apart was just killing us both. We're still a few hours away from each other, but it's so nice to see him more often. We get along so well... never have any arguments - EVER. I recently did something I know I shouldn't have done... i logged into his e-mail account. I'm not sure what I thought I was going to find... and it's not like I was suspicious about anything. It's been a week now, and I'm still not sure why I did what I did. But I don't hide anything from him, and he doesn't hide anything from me, so I told him I went into his e-mail. He can't forgive me... says he's not mad... just doesn't understand why I did it and doesn't know if he can trust me anymore since I can't trust him. I'm afraid I'm going to lose him over this, and I don't know what to do, say, or think. Please help me :( I love him so much
If it was an accident, then why would you tell him? Trust me, if you looked at his, he's looked at yours! You need to quit worrying about losing him and start worrying about WHY he got so mad about it to begin with. Here's how I look at it: IF it were my email and he looked at it, I wouldn't care. BECAUSE I have NOTHING to HIDE....Get it....Why would it bother him so bad if he had nothing to hide? You never said if you found anything in the email(s)? Did you? If you didn't, he's probably forwarded them to a web mail account (yahoo, hotmail, etc.) and then deleted them. People are clever.
My ex was having an affair and what tipped me off more than the change in attitude was the fact that I found out that he a webmail account. Why would you need a webmail account when the home ISP gave us five to use??
Just some thoughts.
