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August 21, 2007, 12:46 pm PDT
sexuall addiction of sex and porn
Quote From: trinket
You did not mention you ages, so my guess is your over 18, but under 35.
The fact he did this a second time? No respect for you and your wishes. It does not disturb him enough to stop. Your posting about it, which means your upset by it. So that makes it cheating.
You have 2 options. Both of which involve moving out. It's the only thing that will get his attention- and if you choose not to do that-- like rent a room for a month in another location, parents, and girlfriend, whatever. Then your not going to get his attention and waste more years of your life on a guy who's porn is more important to him than you.
It's nice you love him, but it does not take a guy 3+ years to figure out if your keeper or not.
that's another problem.. he's a GUY... not a MAN.. Big difference! Why should he respect you anyway? You'll just roll over to keep the comfort zone-- HE has got nothing to worry about. i HAVE BEEN WITH MY BF FOR 8 YEARS AND THE LAST 4 YEARS IT HAS BEEN HELL. I HAVE LEFT HIM 4 TIMES OVER THIS . HE SAYS THAT IS WHAT MEN WERE PUT ON THIS EARTH FOR. IN THE LAST 3 MONTHS THE PORN ON THE COMPUTER HAS GOTTEN WAY OUT OF HAND. I LIVE IN HIS HOUSE AND DRIVE HIS TRUCK AND HE MAKES THAT POINT CLEAR. I HAVE HAD TWO STROKES WITH DEALINGWITH THIS PROBLEM. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO. I HAVE NO FAMILY TO GO TO.
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