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My daughter is 5’2” and weights about 105. High metabolism runs in our family and the doctor says she is not in a danger zone yet but she is underweight. She eats but eats extremely healthy and in small portions. Anything that might be considered fattening is taboo. She is active and popular but parents have made comments that she looks anorexic. She is large boned and I think that exaggerates her thinness.
I’m concerned that when she leaves for college and we are not there to watch her eating habits she may have a tendency become anorexic. I’ve taken her to a counselor to talk about her feelings that she needs to take care of the world. We discussed her self-image. She has a high self-esteem and is very happy with her life and body. I’m just wondering if she could be hiding her true feelings or possibly doesn’t even understand any underlying issues.
Should I worry about this or jus allow her to grow in her own way? I have two daughters one is normal petite 5'6 and the other is 5'9 and is slender and muscular. There have been times that they were both unhappy with their weight. I told them if that is uncomfortable then only you can change yourselves. I will be there for you when you need me. I feel that is the key join in with our daughters.
I also have a 16 year old son who is very aware of his weight. At this time he is playing defense for his team ,there have been times when he has come to me feeling fat or made fun of. I have mentioned to him I am here for you if YOU want me to be. We can work together if You would like me to help you.
Allow her to grow,,,just let her know that you are there for her no matter what.. Good luck
