Replies to '09/02 "I Hate Myself"'

She is 14 and 5' 4''.  We have a reasonably peaceful relationship.  She is a quiet girl.  She is very messy though, messier than her 3 little brothers put together.  This confuses me because she gets good grades.  But this weight thing is all about a boy.  I mean in her note she had a list of all the things she had to do if she ate something she shouldn't like do 100 sit ups or 10 laps around the track.  And a list of all the reasons she wanted to lose this weight including this boy who really doesn't know she exists because she doesn't talk to him.  And probably has no clue she is busy losing weight for him.  Thanks.