You think that your H can't get it up because of your hysterectomy? What does he say? Just because you take the fish out of the fish bowl, its still a fish bowl!! What I'm trying to say is just because your missing the internal parts to hold a fetus,that doesn't make you any less a woman.... It may make him less of a man though if thats what he's thinking..
Maybe you need to have a little chat, maybe he's confused on what they took out? If you want to save your sexual part of your marriage, a year is way to long to put this on the back burner. I'd say its time to get this straightned out. Maybe he is having male problems and doesn't want to go to the Dr.? Some serious questions need to be asked and a frank discussion needs to follow.
I too had a hysterectomy 14yrs ago, and I can tell you... my sex drive went thru the roof!!! The pain was gone, the tumors gone,,no worry about unwanted pregnancy... it was liberating to say the least. Don't waste your sexuality...find out whats wrong with him..good luck ~Redneon
