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October 11, 2005, 8:18 am PDT
ouspanky
Quote From: ouspankyto not sure what you want to do....are you kidding. this guys is seeing other girls and only considers you as friends with benefits? you are being used by him for what he wants. he does not have to take you out to eat or on dates and you still give him sex. Maybe that is all you are looking for but i am sure that his friends do not think highly of you because you do sleep with someone, and they are not even your boyfriend. They may even think that you do not have much self respect or self worth because you and him are not really in a relationship and he is seeing other girls. wether he is sleeping with them or not should not matter you need to end that relationship and fast before you get "attached emotional" and want more and then get hurt more in the end. there are plently of other guys out there who will and can treat you better than that. You are so right about getting out of a bad relationship before you get "emotionally attached". I wish I had done this in my situation. And you can believe me that I will be paying attention to those RED FLAGS. In my case the first obvious one was the fact that I did not have any way to contact him. Either he was a player, married or living with someone else. Now I have to heal from the hurt and shame. I hope other women read your post and be alot wiser. I know I will. Thanks for the great advice!
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