I did a search for websites and came up with these: gotherpes.com, herpes.md, and mpwh.com. The dating sites include: loveacess.com, herpes-dating.com, positivesingles.com, stdfriends.com and herpesonline.org. I have not signed on to any and really am not sure how good they are. If anyone has had experience with any of these sites, I would be interested in your views. I'm real nervous about signing up for a site, then having a friend or co-worker find out about me.
Also I too do not have many outbreaks. They seem to occur when I'm under a lot of stress and starting a new relationship it about as stressful as you can get. Has anyone ever used the medication to reduce the outbreaks (ie, Valtrex)? Did you have any real issues -- besides the cost?