Quote From: angelannwaI have read all the posts with great interest. I sense that these two mothers have issues very uniquely their own and may be trying to live through their daughters. Perhaps, they wanted to do these sort of things growing up and were not allowed or the mothers are proving something to their families. Perhaps, they are trying to keep up with the Jones (which will destroy a marriage and family faster than you'd imagine). Another thought is they have marital problems and they use this tactic to cover it up which only makes it worse. I will say, if this is the case, it is NOT worth it. Based on what you might feel after reading all these posts, check in with a Psychologist (Dr Phil endorsed of course), and check out the real issues behind the need to exploit your daughters. I sense you have created situations that will come back and haunt you and make your daughter's life very difficult in the teen years. The very thought of this happening because of a mother's choice turns my stomach. If i was in your shoes and realized that what i was doing was harmful to my girls, I would put an end to it now. It is NOT too late to stop this crazy exploitation and allow these girls a normal childhood. Best wishes!
I think it's discussing!! Fake teeth and the works. Ur daughter is beautiful the way she is... and not a dress up Barbie Doll. What about that 65K that U have spent on this child's "necessities" as U call them. Those bucks would go alot farther in a bank for her college education. Just MIGHT pay for the first semister. U said that U were putting $$ away for her college education... but I just have a gut feeling that it is no where towards 65K.
I would love to see Ur kid in about 6 years..see what difference she has made. Of course.. U'll have to get new teeth.. cuz she will have probably outgrown them.
Sincerely ~ SharonAnn
